Some say the way to your boyfriend’s heart is through his stomach, but no, there are so many cute and romantic things you can do for your guy that will melt his heart. They can even make him jump into the deepest ocean just for you.
Sounds like exaggerating words right?
They are not.
Truth be told, the easiest way to build a deeper and more meaningful and healthy relationship is to make a conscious effort to show your boyfriend you love him and always think about him.
Just doing that, he can never think of break up.
Yes, we ladies want romance, but men like and appreciate romance more. However, their definition of romance differs and men absolutely shouldn’t always be the ones to light up romantic things in a relationship.
That been said, if you really want to keep that light glowing in your relationship or thinking of the craziest things to do for your hubby that he would always cherish, carefully follow me in this article closely.
In this article, I’m going to tell you 20 romantic things you can do for you guy that will make him cherish you to eternity.
Already, you might know a lot of things but confused about which one to start with, trying out any of my amazing ideas will definitely be a good start.
20 ROMANTIC THINGS YOU CAN DO FOR A GUY
Here are some amazing ideas to consider:
#1. ALWAYS REMIND HIM THAT HE’S THE ONLY ONE
Insecurity is bound to come up in a relationship. It’s important that you make your boyfriend aware of how much he means to you.
Think of how you feel when he tells you what you mean to him. It makes you feel like the luckiest woman on the planet; it should anyway.
#2. FALL ASLEEP ON HIM
By nature men are created to provide and protect. And when you show him you have the comfort level and the trust to fall asleep on him, this just makes him feel real good and powerful – most men like that!
Whether you are watching a movie or just chilling on the couch, if you can fall asleep on him that’s only a good thing.
#3. GO ON A TRIP WITH HIM
Taking your boyfriend on a trip is one of the romantic things you can do for him. Doing that will not only give him time alone with you but it lets you both escape the usual daily activities.
Visit your favorite place or places you wish to go and scratch your wish-list off while making the adventure a sweet one.
#4. BREAKFAST IN BED
Definitely, you two have made a routine to prepare breakfast in bed for each other.
Why not make it special this time around by serving breakfast in the nude, be sure to hint that he can have you for dessert.
#5. SPEND TIME WITH HIM
Apart from health, time is the most valuable asset you can give to someone.
Time doesn’t stand still for anybody and when you make a point of spending as much time as you can with your boyfriend, you are showing him that he means a lot to you.
The more time you spend with the right guy, the deeper your connection and that’s awesome.
#6. BUY HIM GIFTS
Once in a while buy a gift for your boyfriend. Whether it’s his birthday, your anniversary, his promotion, or for no reason at all, giving him a gift can brighten his day.
This doesn’t mean you just go into the variety store and grab him a chocolate bar; unless it’s his favorite. When you buy him a special little gift unique to him that grabs his undivided attention, you are telling him he is special.
#7. SEND A LOVE MESSAGE
Write him a note designed to put a smile on his face. Whether it’s sweet or saucy, X-rated or funny, write something you know he’ll love.
Slip it into his briefcase or lunch bag, or tuck it inside the book he’s reading. It’s an easy, sweet surprise that will make him feel appreciated and romanced.
#8. ENCOURAGE A BOYS NIGHT OUT
Guys spend time with their friends just as much as you need girls’ time. If your guy is always apprehensive about your allowing him to spend time with the boys then you have to stop it.
If you know there’s an event coming up that he wants to go to with his guy friends, encourage him to go for it. He’ll love that you support his right to a little guy time.
#9. SURPRISE HIM WITH A BIRTHDAY PARTY
Let his friends know you want to surprise him on his birthday. Play his favourite music and cook his favourite food.
This will surely make him smile and realize how lucky he is to have you. If you can’t do a party, fill his car with dozen of birthday balloons, that’s a surprise as well.
Make him feel special and loved and there’s no doubt bigger and better is just around the corner.
#10. SHOW HIM YOU CAN TAKE A RISK FOR HIM
Life itself is not balanced and in order to find balance, you are going to have to take risks.
Show your boyfriend you’re willing to take a risk, particularly for him, and that will go a long way in showing him that you care.
#11. GET HIM TICKETS
You can get him tickets for his favourite show or a sports game, show up with an envelope of tickets for two of you, or better still, buy him his club jersey or other sports boot.
#12. I LOVE YOU
These words should be on your lips always. They are 3 magic words that have so much power. Always use them whenever you get the chance; but only when you mean it.
It will always remind him how you love him so much and can’t trade him for anything in the world.
#13. HELP HIM RELAX
Life itself can be stressful and it feels good to have a supporting partner who takes care of you.
Plan some surprise distress activities, it will go a long way to remind your guy how important he is to you.
Surprise him with a romantic massage equipped with candles and massage oil or lotion.
Make a soothing playlist for him to listen to before he goes to bed. Make some home-made soup so he can have delicious soup whenever he wants.
#14. COMPLIMENT HIM
Men rarely receive compliments, girls aren’t the only ones who likes to be told they look good, smart, beautifully, or ravishing-of course guys love it as well.
Tell him all the good stuff, tell him he looks sweet with his shirt, or let him know you love his scent, this makes guys feel good.
#15. TELL HIM A SECRET
Unless you open up to your partner and let him in, you will never have that special connection so many partners claim they want.
Tell him a secret and if he does the same in return, you’ve got a keeper. Your boyfriend should be your best friend who you can share your secret without fear.
#16. BE PROUD OF HIM
Let the whole world know he is your boyfriend and show them how much you love him by introducing him to your friends.
Never let him feel like you’re taking him for granted, instead show him how blessed you are to have him.
#17. GET PHYSICAL WITH HIM
When you’re physically touching your partner, you are connecting.
All healthy relationships need physical interaction and in order to create that essential emotional connection in a relationship, you need the gift of touch.
Not just when you are in the bedroom or in an intimate situation, but whenever you are near each other.
This means you should reach out and touch him when you are having lunch. Kiss him just because you feel like it and don’t be afraid, wrap a nice big bear hug around him just because you can.
The more you show your affection for your boyfriend the more he is going to appreciate and love you for it.
#18. FLIRT IN SECRET
A little secret flirtation is fun and naughty and the perfect way to romance your boyfriend, send him a saucy text in the middle of the day.
Form the habit of whispering sweet things to his ear. If you’re out to dinner or at a show, write something just for him on the napkin or ticket and pass it to him – a suggestive secret that you only you share will quickly fire up the romance.
Being romantic with your boyfriend will make him feel loved and appreciated and also add sparkle to your relationship. With these easy ideas there’s always time for romance, so why not try one today?
#19. TAKE A BUBBLE BATH WITH HIM
Nice hot bubble baths are a great route to get closer to your boyfriend. The warmer the better and make sure you’ve got lots of suds. Chances are this is going to lead you to a lot more fun too!
#20. MAKE NIGHT DATE
Don’t be too busy with life that you no longer send roses to your partner. This means you are both going to have to make time in your busy lives just for each other.
Even if it’s just taking an hour to grab a coffee or go for a walk, And if you don’t do date nights before you know it months will have flown by without really spending any quality time with each other.
Make commitment to have a monthly night date together and always keep to it. Even better if you can schedule them weekly. You’ve both got to sit down and figure out what works and stick with it.
When it comes to what guys love or cherish in romantic gestures, it doesn’t matter if it’s expensive or not, what matters is the heart and effort you put into what you give.
Don’t wait for special occasions to celebrate your boyfriend, romance should be celebrated every day.
The best part is you don’t have to spend a lot of money, all it takes are honest efforts which can make a relationship strong and everlasting.